Discipline Without Yelling: I have no patience for my adhd child

Discipline Without Yelling: I have no patience for my adhd child

December 30, 2022 - Reading time: 11 minutes

It can be incredibly difficult to parent a child with ADHD. The lack of focus, poor impulse control, and constant energy can lead to countless frustrations. It's easy to feel like you're always yelling and that nothing is getting through. Fortunately, there are ways to practice discipline without yelling or using punitive methods.


What does autism and ADHD together look like?

What does autism and ADHD together look like?

December 29, 2022 - Reading time: 4 minutes

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) are separate neurodevelopmental conditions, yet they frequently co-occur at remarkably high rates. This overlap can make accurate diagnosis challenging, but proper identification is crucial for tailoring care and support to meet the unique needs of individuals with both conditions.

The Relationship Between Autism and ADHD

ASD and ADHD share several overlapping characteristics including difficulties with sustained attention, distractibility, impulsivity, executive functioning deficits, social communication challenges, and emotional dysregulation. However, there are also distinct differences - ASD is primarily characterized by restricted interests, repetitive behaviors (stimming), and nonverbal communication issues, while ADHD's core symptoms revolve more around hyperactivity, impulsivity and regulating emotions.

Research shows that around 30-50% of individuals with ASD also meet criteria for ADHD, while 20-50% of those with ADHD are also on the autism spectrum.1,2 Although the conditions are separate neurodevelopmental disorders, their symptom overlap means many individuals meet the diagnostic criteria for both.

Diagnosing Co-Occurring ASD and ADHD

Accurately diagnosing either ASD or ADHD alone when they co-exist can be complicated due to the conditions' similarities. A 2013 study found that individuals with co-occurring ASD and ADHD exhibited greater socio-communicative deficits and repetitive behavior than those with ADHD alone.

Some key differentiators:

  • Those with ASD typically show developmental delays from a very young age, whereas those with just ADHD often have typical development prior to symptoms.4
  • Highly restricted interests and repetitive behaviors are more unique to ASD.
  • Severe hyperactivity and impulsivity levels beyond that seen in ASD point towards ADHD.

A comprehensive multi-disciplinary evaluation by clinicians experienced in both conditions is necessary to accurately differentiate and diagnose the potential co-occurrence.

Managing Co-Occurring Conditions

Having both ASD and ADHD can create significant lifelong challenges across multiple domains. However, research shows utilizing appropriate interventions and supports leads to improved outcomes.5 Recommended strategies include:

  1. Establishing predictable routines and structure to provide environmental supports.
  2. Using planners, checklists, calendars and technology to aid executive functioning.
  3. Breaking larger tasks into manageable steps to reduce feelings of overwhelm.
  4. Building in opportunities for special interests, calming activities and sensory breaks.
  5. Seeking evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioral therapy and medication.
  6. Ensuring appropriate educational accommodations and supports through an IEP/504 plan.

A 2018 study found psychosocial interventions like cognitive behavior therapy and parent behavior management training improved ADHD and ASD symptoms in youth with both conditions.6

With proper identification, personalized evidence-based treatments and supports tailored to their specific needs, individuals with co-occurring ASD and ADHD can find great success. Early intervention is key.

While the path can be difficult, understanding one's neurodevelopmental profile and taking a strengths-based approach allows those with these conditions to thrive. Professional help from clinicians experienced in complex presentations is essential, as is a strong system of family and community-based support services.

References:

  1. Salazar F, et al. (2015). Co-occurring psychiatric disorders in preschool and elementary school-aged children with autism spectrum disorder. J Autism Dev Disord, 45(8), 2283-2294.
  2. Antshel KM, et al. (2018). Autism spectrum disorder in adult ADHD populations. World J Biol Psychiatry, 19, S515-S534.
  3. Grzadzinski R, et al. (2013). Characteristics of a Gender-Diverse Sample of Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder and Co-occurring ADHD. J Pediatr Neuropsychol, 2(1-2), 8-26.
  4. Taurines R, et al. (2012). ADHD and autism: Differential diagnosis or overlapping traits? A selective review. ADHD Atten Def Hyp Disord, 4(3), 115-139.
  5. Postorino V, et al. (2017). Clinical differences in children with autism spectrum disorder with co-occurring ADHD. J Clin Child Adolesc Psychol, 46(3), 310-326.
  6. Chuang IC, et al. (2018). Effectiveness of psychosocial interventions for children and adolescents with comorbid autism spectrum disorder and ADHD. Clin Child Fam Psychol Rev, 21(3), 418-438.

How to parent a child with ADHD and autism

How to parent a child with ADHD and autism

December 27, 2022 - Reading time: 4 minutes

Parenting a child with ADHD and autism can be both rewarding and challenging. With the right strategies, parents are able to provide their children with the best possible care and support they need to reach their full potential.


Can complex trauma look like ADHD?

Can complex trauma look like ADHD?

December 22, 2022 - Reading time: 4 minutes

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), a neurodevelopmental disorder, is characterized by difficulty in controlling impulsivity, behavior, and/or attention. It is estimated to affect 8 million people in the United States alone, with symptoms typically appearing before the age of 12.


The Correlation Between ADHD And Anxiety

The Correlation Between ADHD And Anxiety

December 15, 2022 - Reading time: 4 minutes

If you have ADHD, you probably know all too well what it's like to feel overloaded. It can be challenging to stay on top of all the balls that need to be kept in the air at once—work, home life, and social obligations.


Pornography Addiction: Why Porn Is so Addictive?

Pornography Addiction: Why Porn Is so Addictive?

December 10, 2022 - Reading time: 5 minutes

It's no secret that pornography is everywhere. It's easily accessible and anonymous, which can make it even more tempting to view. But what most people don't realize is that pornography can be addictive.


What is gaslighting? Pratical Examples and how to handle them

What is gaslighting? Pratical Examples and how to handle them

December 8, 2022 - Reading time: 5 minutes

We’ve all heard the term “gaslighting” before, but what does it actually mean? In short, gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser intentionally tries to make their victim question their reality.


Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder in India has become a major problem.

Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder in India has become a major problem.

December 7, 2022 - Reading time: 4 minutes

In the study Prevalence of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder in Primary School Children, conducted in Coimbatore, India, researchers found that ADHD prevalence was higher than the global estimate, at 11.32%. The highest prevalence was found at ages 9 and 10 (both with a rate of 26.4%).